My Send Off for 2010 - The End of a Challenging Year...

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I wanted to take a moment to address my thoughts on the year 2010.  I was a very hard year for me.  As most probably don't know, I have gone through a lot of life changes that challenged me in a way that I wouldn't have imagined.  Some great, well love people have left us and friends have been hurt.  I finally can say that I will officially be able to move on from all the negative people in my life.  Some former friends, some more then friends.  I have endured something I never thought I could move past from and the proof has arrived right before my eyes.  I am willing to take more changes and learn more.  Open myself up and work to become a better friend, brother, son, uncle, and god-father in the year to come.  This moment of reflection comes to me as a sign that no matter how hurt you can become, no matter how left out to dry your life has been, or even how bad your situation has become, as a person we can only learn from our mistakes and efforts and move forward with it.  There are a lot of people in my life I had to give up on, that I wish I never did. But I realized something about that, it was never me who gave up on them, it was them, they gave up on me, or us. However the situation looks, I strive to work at making it better, but you can never help someone who wishes not to be helped.  So I leave you all with this message...

"Don't worry about what resolutions you need to make for next year. Celebrate the accomplishments you made in this one. Celebrate the memories you've made and the people in your life. And also celebrate that you have a chance to do it again..."

I've got an amazing and very challenging year ahead of me as I assume you all do.  Let praise and be thankful for another shot at meeting new people and share great memories!  I dedicate this song to 2010!

B.H.P. Episode #2 "First Date Texting" Collaboration with razor2778 (Jimmy Wright)

Here is my second installment of B.H.P. ENT-TV (B.H.P. Entertainment TV).  I guess appear on razor2778's rants about going on a first date with a girl and text messaging.  My friend Jimmy (aka razor2778) has been getting a little buzz among some of his friends and followers with his rants.  I must admit, it's a good angle to run with and I couldn't help but lay a hand shedding a little light on the subject from my point of view.  This looks like the beginning of something good.  God Bless!  

Black Wednesday Birthday Party Aftermath

Oh yes my friends, it's was completely and utterly an awesome time on Black Wednesday and a great time was had by all in my group. For starters the Birthday Party went great and everything that I planned for was held up to my word. I couldn't be more happy with how the staff over at Filthy Libertine set everything up. To top it all off the D.J.'s were right on key with the music and the bartenders were also on their A game. I was at the club earlier then normal to make sure everything was set-up right with my friend Terrell, and once things were accounted for, we started to get our Holiday consumption of Alcohol on a hefty jump start. The rest of my guys met up later on in the night to complete the awesome time of kicking back and relaxing, enjoying life and also the music as well. Just like pretty much every other night spot in Chicago on the eve of Thanksgiving, it was completely packed and at the limit of capacity. As you can tell by some of the images posted, it was a real intense time of debauchery commencing. The club actually ended sooner in the night for some odd reason, but it didn't stop our after-set cravings for some more fun. We ended up heading out to Mannequin Night Club and finished off our night out downtown into the early hours of Thanksgiving morning. Now what's next? Well, I guess I'll start off with finishing off my year on a good side and get my 2009 rolling with success from the get go. So, time to start some rough drafts of New Years' Plans, and then focus on the challenges and goals in my focus for 2009. Till next time...I'll leave you with a word of the night or in this case word for the post of the night.

booty grazing - The act of mass texting a generic message to members of the opposite sex in hopes that a guaranteed hookup for the night will be established. It often involves a very nonspecific message such as "What are you up to tonight?" or "Want to meet up later?" The key feature is the lack of personalization so that the same message can be sent to as many people as possible. This can also be applied to other contact means such as myspace, facebook or email.

EXAMPLE: Last night I went booty grazing and had to choose between 3 different hoes.

Keep the Booty Grazing alive my peeps!