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Showing posts with label Heartache. Show all posts

Saturday, March 29, 2014

Things Happen For What They Must...




Time passes by, and things change. We grow older, learn from our regrets, and try to catch up with the sands of time. We try to live a better life and make decisions that reflect what we've learned durning our hard times.

No matter how awesome a situation was, relationship you had, or choice that had to be made. Remember, you made them because you felt it was better for you. Now is not the time to regret the path you took that put you where you are today.

Now is the time to atone for the decisions you've made and make sure they happened to you for a reason. Whether you make it a good reason or not depends on your character.

Make the moves that count and try to put yourself back in the spotlight of your choosing.

Just remember, if you're content and happy, don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Live your life your way and enjoy what sands of time you have left.

~ S ~

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Lessons Learned

How does one really start a post about learning something that they've learned a while ago? Being out here away from my busy life back home has given me some time to force on focusing on myself. It has been really good so far.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

A Message For Those Dependent For A Valentine


So here you are.  Your alone on Valentine's Day with nothing better to do then feel like a super lame EMO kid who is one bad rock song away from slitting their wrists.  Well, my advice to you?  Grow the Hell up.  Sorry I couldn't really keep that back but I have to be honest with you.  I've come across so many people who feel "Dependent" on hoping or wishing for a Valentine's sweetie to sweep them off their feet and make them feel like a little angel or expect them to buy this super expensive gift or whatnot.  Seriously, just look at this situation your putting yourself through.  Setting expectations for someone who probably doesn't even know you or know you exist.  Now I know what your thinking, "Damn, Saúl is being a jerk right now, he must really hate Valentine's Day."  What I would say to you is that your assumption couldn't be far from accurate about my view on Valentine's Day.  I literary enjoy that day completely.  Being the attractive and superb bachelor that I am, it's so sad when I come across females that I might be interested in at this time of year, and they "break down" when they are single during this time of the year. They feel like their world is gonna end or that it's more like "Single Awareness Day" then anything else.  Truth be told, your life is what you make of it.  If you are currently mad at me while reading this post then you maybe one of the many who feel that they "Need" to be with someone so that they can be happy.  Spend the day with your family if it bothers you that much.  Hang out with friends if you feel the need to be around people other then your family.  Again, my apologies if I've offended you but the reality is you need to take a step back and appreciate yourself for who YOU ARE before you can make the next step of receiving that appreciation from someone else.  The equivalent is that one girl in your group of friends that need to have the most attention or material possessions just to feel better about themselves, aka Gold Diggers.  And in case you are wondering, I do have an awesome day planned for Valentine's thanks for asking.  In the meantime in between time, keep your eyes here for new posts.  

Keep it Funky, Keep it Fresh, and I'll catch you on the Flipside.

~S~

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Right Eye Tear Drops: To My Friend Rhi...You will truly be missed.

Rhiannon Bahena (Kennedy)

May 17th, 1986 - September 2nd, 2011


I heard an interested saying a couple of days ago.  It goes something like this:


"When a tear drops from your right eye, 

it's because of something loving and heartwarming.


When a tear drops from your left eye,

it's because of something painful and heartbreaking."


It struck a cord with me because of you Rhi.  You were such a fun person to be around and took value in the small things in life, as well as the great things.  Throughout my life, I've kept my family close and only have a very small group of friends that I carry in my day to day life.  So someone please tell me why that every time I think of you, every time I was working on making my dedication video for you, a tear rolls down my left eye?  No matter how happy I am, how I carry each day, and keep your thought in my heart, and when I can gain a moment in the day to wind down from life's daily stresses, a tear rolls down my left eye?  You made my life this past year such an adventure.  And as much I gave you advice, and helped you through tough times in your life, you were really the one teaching me.  And it sucks because I didn't realize it till now.



“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”


It's because of the compassion we shared as friends to help each other through hard times and to make memories with during the good ones.  I am not just honored but also truly blessed to have you come into my life.  You always smirked at me whenever I gave you 20 questions about a guy you liked, and many times have called me an "Over Protective Big Brother".  I laughed at the fact that you tried to hook me up with any friends you thought would like me.  I never asked any of that from you, but you did it, because you felt it in your heart to look after me that way.  You have been such a good friend to me when no one else was around.  And I will always be grateful for that.  I remember going with you and your kids to the Pumpkin Patch, it was one of the funniest times I had with you.  I was hoping to do that again this year, but it looks like that time will never come.  But I promise that I will do all that God will allow me, to make sure they have what they need.  I owe that to you.  I loved the fact that you were always up front and blunt.  Those are qualities most people claim to have, but really lack.  Not you, you were definitely someone special.  I will never want to admit that your gone.  So I'll be like you'll be gone for awhile.  And I'll see you again.  And maybe I'll get my right eye to tear when I think of you again.  


                                                                      Love, 

                                                                           Saúl Acevedo


P.S.  Donations are always welcome to the Rhiannon Bahena (Kennedy) Foundation.  There is no donation too small to give.  All donations go to Rhiannon's two adorable children.


Rhiannon and her sweet children.